i am still here ...barely ...

sooo, its been awhile - please bare with me ...

i have a tweenager and i honestly think she is trying to kill me ... i used to joke with DAH that i would do all the dirty work when they were babies - middle of the night feeds, poop patrol, EVERYTHING - but he would be in charge of the teenagers - dating, driving, ditching. BAHAHA!!!

over this past month i have decided to make that a reality .... i just haven't decided wether to take up the drink or simply get myself a little apartment .... hmmmmm, who knew i would have options?