Who gets YOUR kids??

so this is a bit of a touchy subject but here it goes ... who gets YOUR kids?

i dont mean, in case of death, who gets your kids? i mean who gets to determine who gets access to your kids? how do YOU decide who gets your kids?

or do you?

What happens if you are assigned a teacher or principal who you don't connect with? or who you feel is not a positive influence to your child? how do you deal with that?

Please dont think i am teacher bashing because i am not! i know first hand what a demanding job it is to be in the classroom. i am simply looking for some insight as to what to do if you don't think your child has the right educational guidance...

Follow mine, i'll follow yours

... simple concept and it falls in line with my "being a good friend" philosophy!